Introverts vs. Extroverts and Promotion Patterns in Corporate America
Introverts, a recent study has revealed that you're not as alone as you think. Yes, the world is full of extroverts who thrive on being outgoing and gregarious at all times. But what if you're an introvert? Does this mean that your career is doomed before it even starts? Not at all! And in fact, introverts can actually be better leaders than their louder counterparts because they have built-in strengths that make them more thoughtful about how to lead others successfully. Here are some tips for making sure your introverted personality doesn't hold your career back:
Introverts Social Interaction Dilemma
Introverts feel like they don't know how to be social, but in fact, they are just as good at social interactions as extroverts. In fact, one study from the journal Psychological Science found that introverts are more successful at remembering people's names after meeting them for the first time than their outgoing counterparts.
The reason why introverts feel socially awkward is because they often don't know how to react during social situations — they're more likely to be thinking about what other people think of them and putting too much pressure on themselves; this anxiety can make it hard on an introvert's self-esteem. Even though being an introvert can sometimes make you feel inferior to your extroverted friends or coworkers, there are ways you can improve your social skills so that interacting with others won't seem so intimidating anymore!
Where introverts need practice and the confidence to find their voices, extroverts run the risk of speaking without proper internal filters and thus have a greater a risk of using the wrong combination of words which can be devastating in today's environment of cancel culture and thin-skinned cupcakes.
Introverts need to practice speaking up in a safe and supportive environment. They should also seek out a coach or mentor who can help them work on their presentation skills, learn how to make eye contact, and improve their confidence level. As introverts get more comfortable speaking up and talking about themselves, they will become more confident in the workplace.
If Popularity Contest, Extroverts Lead the Way!
Being a leader is not about being popular, it's about making the right decisions.
Leadership is not about being liked or respected, it's about doing what's right for your team and company. You can't be a good role model if you're not willing to lead by example in your day-to-day interactions with people at work.
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Leaders don’t get extra points for being rude. They may be respected, but they are rarely admired. In fact, your peers will be more likely to respect and admire you if you can hold yourself back from saying the first thing that comes into your head.
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Rude people have a hard time keeping friends and making allies. If you’re rude to others in the workplace, they’re unlikely to work with you when it matters most—a fact that could come back to haunt you when it’s time for promotions or raises (or even just getting more responsibility).
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Being polite is good for business! People who are polite earn higher salaries than their bossy counterparts; their peers value them as colleagues; and customers want to do business with them because they feel comfortable around them—all because of how polite those employees were able to conduct themselves professionally from day one!
Fight Complacency and Spinning Wheels
The biggest challenge in the workplace is that you have to keep moving forward. If you don't, your career will stall. You can't do it alone. You will get tired and give up; or worse, someone else will pass you by or take your job from you because they're taking advantage of all the opportunities available to them and making themselves indispensable.
You need help—and not just a mentor who'll tell you what to do next (because by then it's too late). According to psychologist Dr. Robert Cooper: "The best way for an employee to develop himself is through learning and development" (Cooper 2007). He suggests that employees should seek out opportunities for training, supervision and self-improvement as well as leadership roles within their organizations whenever possible in order not only advance their careers but also improve their personal lives outside of work settings while retaining a sense of fulfillment inside those same environments too."
This means if something doesn't feel right in your professional life today—or tomorrow—you need to fix it now before things become even worse later on down the line when everyone else notices how disengaged they've become around each other due largely because there hasn't been enough effort put forth toward developing friendships between coworkers either due partly because nobody wants others knowing about their shortcomings so nobody takes responsibility for improving things either way we're doomed!
Surround Yourself With Like-Minded People
Nice people, you’re not alone. You are surrounded by other nice people, and that makes you a great teammate. But there is danger in this.
Your team is a reflection of you and your personality, so if everyone is nice, then the team could come across as weak or uninterested in winning at all costs. This can hinder your career goals by making it difficult for others to see what you bring to the table.
Having people on your team who bring out different aspects of your personality will help build a strong team dynamic that showcases how well you work together when competing against other teams or companies.
It’s important to understand what type of person would be best suited for the position because each person brings something different to the table.
The first thing I look for when hiring someone new is what kind of attitude they have towards their work and life in general.
The second thing I look for is whether or not they would fit into the organization's culture.
Thirdly, I look at their past experiences with working with others because some people just don't mesh well with others (no matter how hard they try).
Strong Teams and Smart Decisions Rule the Day
The best leaders in the world are nice people. They're also not afraid to make tough decisions, even when it means disappointing someone or being unpopular. In fact, many of them have a habit of making hard choices that make others feel uncomfortable because they know that it's for the greater good.
As an introvert who has worked both as a leader and as part of a team, I've seen first-hand how important it is for leaders to help their teams grow and develop. This means sharing credit with your team members—not taking it all for yourself—and allowing everyone on your team the opportunity to shine when they can. It also means recognizing when people aren't interested in growing into more senior roles within your organization; sometimes this means letting go of folks who don't fit into your long-term plans while recognizing the value that they bring in their personal comfort zone.
Conclusion
In the end, being nice is a good thing. It makes you a better team player, a more effective leader and a more valuable employee. When you're nice to people, they'll be nicer back to you — and that's not just in business, but also in life. If your organization has established a pattern of promoting narcissistic extroverts, then it is probably a sure sign that you are not working for a first-class organization.
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